December 14, 2006 – a day I will long remember.
YIPPEE!!!!
I took my very first driving evaluation/ lesson today on a hand controlled car. I finally got my permit from the “great” state – oops – commonwealth of Pennsylvania that I have been trying for since July 2006. So, after numerous “they shouldn’t have done that”s and “you have to do this,” I finally got the permit and set up my first appointment. Remember - I haven't driven a car since October 1999!
I honestly thought I would be given tests to monitor or check my reflexes, eyes and stuff and was prepared for a stress-free examination in some room. I signed all the appropriate forms and the last one was for the road lessons. Hmmm, I thought, nahhhh. Then I met the woman that I had been talking to from the rehab center – she walked with a cane and explained to me that she had suffered a stroke a year ago (at 38) and went through all of this herself too. I felt instant camaraderie with her and relaxed a lot. But then she made my heart pound when she introduced me to my instructor who would be taking us out driving today. Today? He is a very nice man – very warm, sociable and patient with nerves of steel, obviously. I was led to the car where I stood and pivoted quite smoothly to seat myself in the driver’s seat. OK, I can do this. Relax. The instructor went through all the basics of the hand controls. A lever on the left is the brake and accelerator – pushing forward is the brake and a gradual downward motion is the accelerator. The steering would be accomplished with a knob on the wheel allowing for easy 360 degree movement. The instructor had his own set of controls on the right and my therapist scooted into the back.
I was very nervous when he directed me to drive to a neighboring parking lot. I drove 10 to 15 miles per hour, trying to be smooth with the gas and brakes. I finally got the smoothness I wanted managing circles and figure 8s quite easily and I continued to relax. He then instructed me to go through the main parking lots of the center and the adjoining shopping center WITH a street between them. I did all my turns, up and down, right and left – smoothly – maybe 90% of the time. I parallel parked and backed into a parking spot too! Twice I forgot my hand control movements and tried to use my feet. I lack the coordination in them, but I have to re-learn to just leave them be and use the hand controls. He joked with me he’d bungee tie them down if I kept up! I still think to use my feet and keep them positioned and poised for the pedals which do not exist.
The result was very good. I only jerked my passengers twice and not very badly, so they gave me a very good report on my handling of the controls, my relaxing and the definite advantages and ease of future lessons. I was an excellent candidate. They both feel from my first driving experience that my need for lessons would be in the low count. I was given a driver’s manual to study because I would have to take the written part again to be re-certified. I feel like I’m 16 years-old again!!
I need to decide when to begin the lessons. I might wait until spring for the heavy duty lessons to prepare for the test, but may squeeze in a few now while the weather is decent!



Comments (2)
I'm behind in reading the blogs and forums but had to chime in to say how excited I am for you! Jealous but still excited! I bet you can't wait for spring to finally get here. I'm looking forward to getting behind the wheel myself someday.
Posted by Jeff | January 30, 2007 10:51 AM
Posted on January 30, 2007 10:51
I'm not writing a book or anything like that but I'm amazed how little time I seem to have myself. Good luck with the book.
As for the boyfriend I'm sure you'll make the right decision and if nothing else a good friend couldn't hurt as long as you don't get hurt in the long run. One thing for sure he shouldn't be placing any blame on you at all cause sex is a two way street.
Posted by Jeff | January 30, 2007 11:10 AM
Posted on January 30, 2007 11:10